Monday, April 29, 2013

THE SONG THAT CAUGHT MY HEART

THE SONG THAT CAUGHT MY HEART

The last eight years visiting Walter Reed National Military Medical Center - Bethesda allowed me to experience so many friendships at so many levels.   From patients to their families and staff.   As I have written in previous columns, I consider each of these relationships a blessing in every way.   Naturally I feel acutely aware of the issues that affect our wounded warriors......their challenges and their goals.

In the summer of 2011 a friend posted a video on the internet that captured my ears and my heart.   That video was "Still in The Fight" produced by Bill Brown, and featuring three wounded warriors......Kyle Carpenter, Spanky Gibson and Aaron Mankin.   The singer/songwriter is Mike Corrado, LtCol of Marines at the Wounded Warrior Regiment.   It is a tremendous video that draws attention to the struggles and the courage of our war wounded warriors.  

One of those warriors, Kyle Carpenter, I had the honor of meeting shortly after he was admitted to the hospital in November 2010.   Of course he would not remember that visit, as he was not in very good shape at the time due to his serious injuries.   But I can tell you meeting him had quite an impact on me.   He was a fighter.........it was evident from the start.   His family was there surrounding his bedside that Christmas.  Today Kyle has become an inspirational example of overcoming those injuries...far surpassing even what the doctors believed possible!!!  

Back to the video............when I first watched it I was so impressed that I watched it numerous times and then knew I had to contact the producer and tell him what an incredible film he had created!  At the time there was a fund drive taking place to raise money to make the video into a feature film.  I found a link that provided the name of Bill Brown's company and when I got the phone number I called Bill directly.   It was a call that was meant to be.   We spoke for nearly an hour, but if you know Bill, that is easy to do!   He is such a personable guy and we had so many facets of the military, the wounded and such that we could relate to.  Most important was that I wanted him to know that I was truly impressed by the video and the song.    That was the beginning of a special friendship.

As time passed and it became 2012 the video gave birth to the documentary of the same name, 'Still in the Fight.' Bill made several visits to Walter Reed for filming and that gave us the opportunity to meet over lunch with his partner Billy Lewis.    What a pleasure it was to spend a little quality time together and speak of the film and it's future.

The rest of the story is history......later that year, October to be exact, Bill asked me if I would consider writing some of the experiences I had relayed to him over the phone.   He believed that the wondrous ways God has been working in my life would make good reading....stories that others would appreciate.   At first I hesitated, having not written seriously except business letters when needed
or when requesting donations for the care packages I ship that you have read about.   After a few minutes I realized he was right.......that the stories that were floating around in my head might be worth putting down on paper.   Thus the beginning of my new career as a columnist!   I am indebted to Bill for opening that door for me....a door that God knew would open one day.....and last October was the time.    I have to say that I feel incredibly blessed by the responses I have received when friends and strangers read about the events that have taken place in my life.   I regret not keeping a journal all those years, as friends suggested I do......so I have to wait now for something to trigger the memories and then I am able to share them with you, the readers.   Thank you all for your positive reinforcement and comments.   Perhaps if Bill would allow, I would love to hear from some of you who are not in my familiar circle of friends.   Hopefully I can continue to count on my memory to bring these ever so special recollections to you on a regular basis!


Saturday, April 13, 2013

A FAMILIAR NAME

A FAMILIAR NAME

Eleven years ago when I embarked on this journey to support our troops in the Middle East with care packages I decided I should print many of the emails that pertained to the packages.   Not just 'thank you' emails, but newsletters from the various units I shipped to, news articles from all media sources, and more.   I had no idea what I would do with them, but I printed them and saved them.  Files for particular individual recipients, specific units and each of their deployments, etc, many of whom I have written about in the articles you have read.   The funny thing is, from the beginning, dozens of people suggested I keep a journal of all the amazing things that have transpired over those eleven years.   I am not the sort of person who journals every day.  Of course now I regret not doing so, as I have to rely on my memory for the multitude of notable experiences  that have had such an impact in my life.   Too late now.....and I have been through all the files, mountains of them.   There are still a few good stories to relate in those files, and today I am sharing one that really is amazing!

As I have written in the past my nephew Alex McBride was with 3rd Battalion, 6th Marines and was deployed to Iraq 2005-2006 for his last deployment based out of Al Qaim.   There were several significant missions during that deployment, one being Operation Steel Curtain, and it was a difficult tour filled with too many casualties.   Multiple missions, one after the other, nearly constant combat and constant danger.   The chaplains deployed with their Marines and Sailors had their work cut out for them.   Offering advice of all sorts, along with sharing God's word and comfort in times of fear.   As many of you know from being in combat, often one feels closer to God in times of terror and the unknown.   I can only speak from the stories that have been related to me by those who have lived with that fear and from the chaplains themselves.

As I was reading through a folder last week for Alex's last deployment, I came across the name of the chaplain who was serving with 3/6 at the time.  His name was LT Bryan Crittendon.   Not exactly a common name, and surely there could not be more than one Navy Chaplain with the same name.   The reason it caught my eye was because I am shipping packages now to a chaplain....LCDR Bryan Crittendon.

Immediately I wrote an email to the current Chaplain Crittendon, inquiring whether he was in Iraq with 3/6 back in '05-'06 and whether the name Alex McBride sounded familiar.    He replied almost immediately that the name rang a bell, but he could not place the face that went with the name.   I responded with a short description.....Alex was 5'4", had been with India Company and had sent me a photo of him being baptized.    Alex had written that although it would have been meaningful to be baptized in the Euphrates River it was dangerous and very dirty.   Well, guess what?   Chaplain Crittendon remembered distinctly building a baptistery outside their little chapel and baptizing Alex!!!    That was seven years and many deployments ago, but he remembered vividly that day near the Euphrates where Alex was baptized and could now put a face to the name.    We were both stunned at the connection after all these years!  

Chaplain Crittendon is still serving with the Marines and Sailors of Camp Lejeune but with a different unit.   Once again I have the honor of supporting him and the men with whom he is serving, imparting his wisdom, advice and comfort.   Once again life comes full circle.......connecting each of us in a very special way that only God could orchestrate.

Friday, April 5, 2013

EASTER IN AFGHANISTAN

EASTER IN AFGHANISTAN

My care packages are fairly similar in content and do not change throughout the year.   The boxes contain lots of non-perishable food, some toiletries, socks and lots of reading material.  The Marines like to read magazines such as Guns and Ammo, American Rifleman, Car and Driver, Sports Illustrated, Bowhunter, Motorcycles, Rolling Stone, Men's Journal, and a daily devotional "Our Daily Bread" for those who seek spiritual enrichment every morning.   Each year a local Girl Scout troop reaches out to their friends and families to purchase cookies for my care packages and I am astonished when multiple cases are delivered to my home.   Those cookies are always cherished by the recipients and a tasty reminder of home.

This past January started with a new challenge...a special request from one of my contacts, a first sergeant with 8th Communications Battalion.  We had been in contact since they arrived in Afghanistan.   She wrote that she had 130 troops at her location and wondered if it would be possible to supply items she had included on her Easter wish list.   The list included Easter baskets, grass for the baskets, plastic Easter eggs, chocolate Easter candy and stuffed animals.  

I felt in my heart that when I sent out the email request to friends who have supported the care packages over the years their enthusiasm to participate would be contagious, and it was.   One of those friends shared my email with some of her friends and then things really began to take off!!!   Nevertheless I was truly stunned at the responses I received from friends and strangers alike.    One sewing club offered to hand-make 130 burlap Easter baskets with hand braided handles (burlap would fold up and be much easier to pack and ship than straw baskets)......but can you imagine hand sewing 130 of them, and then adding braided handles?    One couple offered to supply the stuffed animals.  Another donor offered to supply the plastic eggs, and another the grass.   Lastly a club  I belong to offered to supply the chocolates.... foil covered  eggs, individual chocolate crosses and chocolate bunnies, as well as 130 signed Easter cards, hand delivered to me.  Thank goodness we started in January!!!!

Each of the donors shipped their contributions directly to the Marines because the donors were scattered all over the US.   The candy and cards I shipped because  they were local.   Arrival date in Afghanistan was of great concern.   Since this project started in January we assumed we had plenty of time.  However, that is not always the case when you are counting on the mail system.   Items arrived over a span of several weeks starting in February with the grass arriving the day after Easter.   The 1stSgt managed to put everything together in such a way that each recipient received a basket with each of the items.   They were also treated to a cookout in celebration of the Easter holiday.

The pleasure derived from giving is as great, if not greater, than receiving.    Each of us who contributed was anxious to see photos of our troops enjoying their Easter gifts.   To know that from so many distant places this project came together almost flawlessly was truly uplifting.    It is a wonderful feeling to know that there are Americans out there who want to show their support, to let our troops overseas know that they are loved, appreciated and not forgotten, on holidays and every day.