This story was written for the management of my condo, a 17 floor
highrise, where violations were taking place on a daily basis. I
contacted the Fire Marshal office and we presented these issues to the
management in order to control the problem of items left overnight in
hallways during COVID months. April 2020
It was a balmy November 1991, early evening, and close to
Thanksgiving. Everyone was home relaxing, thinking about the coming
holiday. All of a sudden the fire alarm went off. So often that
happens, you look out the door, there is nothing. This was NOT one of
those times. The air outside my door near the end of the hallway was
pitch black. I mean black, you could not see your nose.It was
frightening. I grabbed my wallet, keys, and locked the door.
Thankfully I knew the fire door was the door next to mine because you
could not see any doors, any walls, anything at all. Just thick black
smoke. Down the fire stairwell everyone went, exiting the front of the
building. For those who did not live next to the fire stairs, it was
much more scary. Feeling your way...Imagine if there were items on the
floor that would hamper your safe exit from the building. Items that
would cause you to trip, items that could be combustible as you feel
your way down the wall to the nearest exit.
The first started in a unit down the hall from be, 2nd unit on the right
from the center. I can tell you it was horrible. That unit and the
one above it and below were totally obliterated. Many of us walked
around the back of the building to see the flames shooting up to the
unit above, and the water damage was horrendous. The smoke was all
over the eighth floor, and above. Our entire floor and the one above
and below were a disaster. Photos of that fire in the rear of the
building hang on the walls of the Chevy Chase Fire Department.
They allowed us in only long enough to take some items with us but we
were not allowed to stay here for three weeks. The Red Cross found
everyone a place to live. I lived at the Pooks Hill Marriott for three
weeks. The doors on our floor were severely damaged because they axe
them to make sure no one is trapped. Due to the asbestos in the
hallways, they were sealed and we were allowed in once every week to
collect items we needed. Most people had insurance, some did not.
My point in sharing this story is, with items being left in the hallways
for fear of contamination, there are hazards. Perhaps a fire safety
letter/memo should be distributed to each resident. That was done many
years ago, but not for years. Reminders to know where the exits are,
firewalls, stairwells. And reminders that items cannot remain on the
floors in the hallways. All I can imagine is if such a fire happened
again, and people were tripping on items in the halls as they felt their
way to find an exit, it would be terrible.
Just my thoughts, as I see items every day as I walk the hallways. For
example, one unit has had large empty water cooler bottles outside their
door since the weekend and they are flammable and would cause a problem
should there be a fire. Of course I pray we never have another fire as
bad
as that one. There was another fire on this floor above the office
several
years ago. That one was white smoke and did not cause as much damage,
as it was more localized, but the water damage was severe nonetheless,
to
every floor below.
Thursday, July 9, 2020
Thursday, November 5, 2015
A NEW SEASON
Written for the November 2015 issue of the Chevy Chase Women's Republican Club newsletter
A NEW SEASON by Susan Warren, Chaplain
Glorious are the changes of the seasons, especially autumn. The green of summer transforms into shades of yellow, orange and red, welcoming the coming fall. The foliage becomes a flaming display of God's handiwork, breathtaking in it's brilliance. We let go of the leisurely days of summer and replace them with the stress that accompanies the coming holiday season
.
A NEW SEASON by Susan Warren, Chaplain
Glorious are the changes of the seasons, especially autumn. The green of summer transforms into shades of yellow, orange and red, welcoming the coming fall. The foliage becomes a flaming display of God's handiwork, breathtaking in it's brilliance. We let go of the leisurely days of summer and replace them with the stress that accompanies the coming holiday season
.
We don't have to let that happen! There is peace in nature and it's
everywhere, just look out the window. There is serenity in our
surroundings, we just have to take the time to be aware. We can focus on
these gifts our Lord has given us because otherwise it is easy to
become overwhelmed with the demands of the holidays. Thanksgiving and
Christmas should be filled with joy, but so often we don't allow
ourselves to experience that joy.
Fall is family time, filled with football and shopping. Thanksgiving brings families together to celebrate a bountiful meal and catch up on busy lives. Generations are seated around the table with the opportunity to give thanks for all that God has bestowed on us. We must not forgot to praise those who spent countless hours, even days, preparing our sumptuous meals, and not take them for granted. Hard work, pride and love go into creating such a feast because the preparer knows the delight it brings to everyone. This is one special meal that builds memories that will be cherished forever.
Thanksgiving is a perfect time to reflect on how God has been working in our lives and to thank Him for all He has provided each and every day throughout the year. He has walked alongside us through our peaks and valleys and He will always be there for us. All He desires is that we acknowledge His presence
.
As our club chaplain, I pray that each of you will be filled with His love throughout the holiday season, and surrounded by the love and friendship of friends and family. May you enjoy a safe and blessed holiday.
Fall is family time, filled with football and shopping. Thanksgiving brings families together to celebrate a bountiful meal and catch up on busy lives. Generations are seated around the table with the opportunity to give thanks for all that God has bestowed on us. We must not forgot to praise those who spent countless hours, even days, preparing our sumptuous meals, and not take them for granted. Hard work, pride and love go into creating such a feast because the preparer knows the delight it brings to everyone. This is one special meal that builds memories that will be cherished forever.
Thanksgiving is a perfect time to reflect on how God has been working in our lives and to thank Him for all He has provided each and every day throughout the year. He has walked alongside us through our peaks and valleys and He will always be there for us. All He desires is that we acknowledge His presence
.
As our club chaplain, I pray that each of you will be filled with His love throughout the holiday season, and surrounded by the love and friendship of friends and family. May you enjoy a safe and blessed holiday.
Monday, June 8, 2015
WOMEN'S REPUBLICAN CLUB HONORS OUR MILITARY CAREGIVERS by Susan Warren
This was our fifth year hosting such a meaningful spring luncheon, with Carol Bowis, Caring for America, in the lead. As the liaison for our club and the caregivers, it has been my honor to coordinate the invitations to our treasured guests.
Our annual club luncheon to honor the caregivers from Walter Reed and Ft. Belvoir was a grand success. Despite a cold rainy misty day nothing could dampen anyone's spirits. Even our bagpiper Dan Friz willingly stood in the front yard to play for our guests as they disembarked a bus provided by the Yellow Ribbon Fund. All of our members were cheering and welcoming the ladies as they entered the house.
Planned as a garden party at the home of Jayne Plank, we were forced indoors, but soon realized this was an unexpected blessing. Rather than have 14 caregivers and 30 club members scattered around the garden everyone was comfortably seated in one of three spacious rooms, making the entire luncheon far more intimate. As always, we opened in prayer, and then enjoyed a marvelous pot luck lunch. During this time the ladies were able to enjoy personal conversations, getting to know each other.
We were honored to have as our guest speaker Dava Guerin, coauthor of "Unbreakable Bonds...the Mighty Moms and Wounded Warriors of Walter Reed." In her book, she highlighted the stories of ten women, one of whom was our guest. Many of them have attended our luncheons in previous years. She has developed a keen understanding of the challenges these woman face daily and they appreciated having her with us to bridge the gap between civilians and the hospital life of the wounded and ill family members.
After her short message, we opened up the floor for our guests to introduce themselves, offering their names, where they hail from, and a short history of their loved one's injuries, their triumphs and tragedies here at the hospital. It was clear that for these caregivers to be together was an extraordinary time for them as well as for us. They rarely, if ever, have the opportunity to share their lives in an intimate setting such as this. There were tears and laughter, but they rely heavily on their sense of humor to see them through the daily regime of doctor appointments, meetings, and physical care for their loved ones.
Before our guests departed, we had some special gifts for them. The generosity of our club members and non-club members raised enough in donations so that each lady attending was given a $75 Target (their store of choice) gift card and $45 cash. Additionally, Jayne Plank gave each lady a $100 gift card to Under Armor.
The next day I received some loving 'thank you' messages from some of our guests and here are just a couple of them: From Jacqueline: "I know you all worked really hard to make everything come together. I was so thankful to you for allowing Patricia and I to come to the luncheon. It was a beautiful day for us despite the yucky weather. I loved talking to the sweet ladies from your group. They were so fun and encouraging. We had a rough month so this was just the uplifting I needed!" From Claudia: "Thank you for your hospitality, everything was wonderful, the food was delicious and the company was the best!"
As Carol Bowis quoted, "Freedom isn't free...we have these brave caregivers, and their soldiers they care for, to thank for their sacrifice. It was our privilege to thank them in person." There were many club members who worked very diligently and to them we give thanks.
This was our fifth year hosting such a meaningful spring luncheon, with Carol Bowis, Caring for America, in the lead. As the liaison for our club and the caregivers, it has been my honor to coordinate the invitations to our treasured guests.
Our annual club luncheon to honor the caregivers from Walter Reed and Ft. Belvoir was a grand success. Despite a cold rainy misty day nothing could dampen anyone's spirits. Even our bagpiper Dan Friz willingly stood in the front yard to play for our guests as they disembarked a bus provided by the Yellow Ribbon Fund. All of our members were cheering and welcoming the ladies as they entered the house.
Planned as a garden party at the home of Jayne Plank, we were forced indoors, but soon realized this was an unexpected blessing. Rather than have 14 caregivers and 30 club members scattered around the garden everyone was comfortably seated in one of three spacious rooms, making the entire luncheon far more intimate. As always, we opened in prayer, and then enjoyed a marvelous pot luck lunch. During this time the ladies were able to enjoy personal conversations, getting to know each other.
We were honored to have as our guest speaker Dava Guerin, coauthor of "Unbreakable Bonds...the Mighty Moms and Wounded Warriors of Walter Reed." In her book, she highlighted the stories of ten women, one of whom was our guest. Many of them have attended our luncheons in previous years. She has developed a keen understanding of the challenges these woman face daily and they appreciated having her with us to bridge the gap between civilians and the hospital life of the wounded and ill family members.
After her short message, we opened up the floor for our guests to introduce themselves, offering their names, where they hail from, and a short history of their loved one's injuries, their triumphs and tragedies here at the hospital. It was clear that for these caregivers to be together was an extraordinary time for them as well as for us. They rarely, if ever, have the opportunity to share their lives in an intimate setting such as this. There were tears and laughter, but they rely heavily on their sense of humor to see them through the daily regime of doctor appointments, meetings, and physical care for their loved ones.
Before our guests departed, we had some special gifts for them. The generosity of our club members and non-club members raised enough in donations so that each lady attending was given a $75 Target (their store of choice) gift card and $45 cash. Additionally, Jayne Plank gave each lady a $100 gift card to Under Armor.
The next day I received some loving 'thank you' messages from some of our guests and here are just a couple of them: From Jacqueline: "I know you all worked really hard to make everything come together. I was so thankful to you for allowing Patricia and I to come to the luncheon. It was a beautiful day for us despite the yucky weather. I loved talking to the sweet ladies from your group. They were so fun and encouraging. We had a rough month so this was just the uplifting I needed!" From Claudia: "Thank you for your hospitality, everything was wonderful, the food was delicious and the company was the best!"
As Carol Bowis quoted, "Freedom isn't free...we have these brave caregivers, and their soldiers they care for, to thank for their sacrifice. It was our privilege to thank them in person." There were many club members who worked very diligently and to them we give thanks.
Sunday, September 14, 2014
GOD LOVES LIFEGUARDS
GOD LOVES LIFEGUARDS by Susan Warren
It began with our new lifeguards at my condominium. This year we hired a new pool company that brings lifeguards to the US for the summer to guard some of the pools in this Maryland area as well as all over the country. The company offers summer jobs to dozens of Serbians. They are provided an apartment and bicycles to get around. Little did the residents of my highrise realize that we would be blessed with a young couple who would become like family.
Their names are Marko and Dragana (aka Gaga), a couple perfectly suited for each other. Not only are they the most professional guards we have ever had, but they are the most personable and the most engaging. However, the purpose of this article is not about how wonderfully they managed our pool all summer... this is about people connecting with people, a topic you know I love to share with my readers.
Marko has a degree in working with children who have disabilities at home in Serbia and Gaga is completing her college education. They are in their mid-twenties. Marko also loves to teach swimming to anyone who wants to learn, from children to senior citizens, with patience you rarely see in young people today. They are always smiling, always agreeable and always endearing.
Dozens of us wanted to get to know them better and to learn about their homeland. We loved to help them get around the city, show them the sights, take them out to eat, feed them while they were working (long days from 10:30am to 8pm six days a week). They learned to travel all over Washington, DC, mastering our public transportation system of buses and underground metro. They saw most of the sights on their days off, including the National Zoo, the Smithsonian museums, the Air and Space museum. They went on several shopping excursions from shopping malls to thrift shops.
The woman who teaches water aerobics offered them the completely furnished basement apartment in her home for half the cost of the apartment provided by the pool company. They could then take the metro and no longer have to bike all the way to and from work. The apartment was available for all but the last two weeks they would be here in the states. Another of our residents, with a two bedroom apartment, offered to take them in! Their living arrangements seemed to fall into place every time there was a need.
Marko hoped that when he initially came to the states he could extend his visa and remain here to work, which he was able to do. He wanted to learn to drive a semi tractor trailer, a profitable career for the next four years. His boss' best friend owns a trucking company which enabled Marko to stay with a guaranteed job. All of this required getting to Boston and again, there were new friends who helped to make that possible. Had it been anyone other than Marko I doubt all of this would have taken place.
Summer passed so quickly, just three short months and the pool closes for the season. It is mid September and we are planning a big farewell pool party with gifts to show our appreciation and love. In two weeks Gaga goes home and Marko goes to Boston. However, the question was, where would he live for eight weeks while he trained for his trucking license? I grew up in the suburbs of Boston, but left in '55, and none of my family is there any longer. Then an idea hit me! Most of you who have read my previous articles know that Walter Reed, its wounded warriors and their families have been a huge part of my life, and one of those families happens to be from Boston. The injured warrior healed, was medically discharged and retired from the Marine Corps earlier this year, remaining here in Maryland. His Mom, whom I befriended when they first arrived at Walter Reed three years ago, still lives in the city of Boston.
I rely on God for much of what I do, not as much as I should, but most of the time when He speaks to me, I listen. The Holy Spirit nudged me to call this Mom and inquire as to whether she might consider taking Marko in for eight weeks. She is from the Ukraine and he is from Serbia so I thought they would have a few things in common. She emphatically said "YES", that she would love to have Marko stay in her son's apartment in her home, and not only that, but rent free!!! At that moment I thanked and praised God and wept for joy!!! She told me that now she would have someone to cook for.....dishes that she rarely cooks since she lives alone. And to top that off, she lives very close to public transportation which he will have to rely on.
Marko and Gaga will visit this amazing Mom next week, get the details worked out, and then return here until Gaga goes home to Serbia. Then Marko starts his new life as a trucker, beginning with his training. We will pray for his safety on the roads and look forward to seeing him when he is in the area. Hopefully Gaga will be back next summer as our lifeguard and Marko will visit with all of us when he comes to see her. Of course, we will all be staying in touch with them via Facebook and email.
Let this be a reminder: there is nothing that happens by accident, there are no coincidences, it is all arranged by God. Every person who crosses our path is there by design, whether or not we understand the reason at the time. This summer it was truly remarkable to watch God working in so many lives. To witness the enormous outpouring of love for Marko and Gaga gave us all hope, that our fellow man is inherently good and kind. It will be a long winter and we will look forward to seeing our friends again next year.
It began with our new lifeguards at my condominium. This year we hired a new pool company that brings lifeguards to the US for the summer to guard some of the pools in this Maryland area as well as all over the country. The company offers summer jobs to dozens of Serbians. They are provided an apartment and bicycles to get around. Little did the residents of my highrise realize that we would be blessed with a young couple who would become like family.
Their names are Marko and Dragana (aka Gaga), a couple perfectly suited for each other. Not only are they the most professional guards we have ever had, but they are the most personable and the most engaging. However, the purpose of this article is not about how wonderfully they managed our pool all summer... this is about people connecting with people, a topic you know I love to share with my readers.
Marko has a degree in working with children who have disabilities at home in Serbia and Gaga is completing her college education. They are in their mid-twenties. Marko also loves to teach swimming to anyone who wants to learn, from children to senior citizens, with patience you rarely see in young people today. They are always smiling, always agreeable and always endearing.
Dozens of us wanted to get to know them better and to learn about their homeland. We loved to help them get around the city, show them the sights, take them out to eat, feed them while they were working (long days from 10:30am to 8pm six days a week). They learned to travel all over Washington, DC, mastering our public transportation system of buses and underground metro. They saw most of the sights on their days off, including the National Zoo, the Smithsonian museums, the Air and Space museum. They went on several shopping excursions from shopping malls to thrift shops.
The woman who teaches water aerobics offered them the completely furnished basement apartment in her home for half the cost of the apartment provided by the pool company. They could then take the metro and no longer have to bike all the way to and from work. The apartment was available for all but the last two weeks they would be here in the states. Another of our residents, with a two bedroom apartment, offered to take them in! Their living arrangements seemed to fall into place every time there was a need.
Marko hoped that when he initially came to the states he could extend his visa and remain here to work, which he was able to do. He wanted to learn to drive a semi tractor trailer, a profitable career for the next four years. His boss' best friend owns a trucking company which enabled Marko to stay with a guaranteed job. All of this required getting to Boston and again, there were new friends who helped to make that possible. Had it been anyone other than Marko I doubt all of this would have taken place.
Summer passed so quickly, just three short months and the pool closes for the season. It is mid September and we are planning a big farewell pool party with gifts to show our appreciation and love. In two weeks Gaga goes home and Marko goes to Boston. However, the question was, where would he live for eight weeks while he trained for his trucking license? I grew up in the suburbs of Boston, but left in '55, and none of my family is there any longer. Then an idea hit me! Most of you who have read my previous articles know that Walter Reed, its wounded warriors and their families have been a huge part of my life, and one of those families happens to be from Boston. The injured warrior healed, was medically discharged and retired from the Marine Corps earlier this year, remaining here in Maryland. His Mom, whom I befriended when they first arrived at Walter Reed three years ago, still lives in the city of Boston.
I rely on God for much of what I do, not as much as I should, but most of the time when He speaks to me, I listen. The Holy Spirit nudged me to call this Mom and inquire as to whether she might consider taking Marko in for eight weeks. She is from the Ukraine and he is from Serbia so I thought they would have a few things in common. She emphatically said "YES", that she would love to have Marko stay in her son's apartment in her home, and not only that, but rent free!!! At that moment I thanked and praised God and wept for joy!!! She told me that now she would have someone to cook for.....dishes that she rarely cooks since she lives alone. And to top that off, she lives very close to public transportation which he will have to rely on.
Marko and Gaga will visit this amazing Mom next week, get the details worked out, and then return here until Gaga goes home to Serbia. Then Marko starts his new life as a trucker, beginning with his training. We will pray for his safety on the roads and look forward to seeing him when he is in the area. Hopefully Gaga will be back next summer as our lifeguard and Marko will visit with all of us when he comes to see her. Of course, we will all be staying in touch with them via Facebook and email.
Let this be a reminder: there is nothing that happens by accident, there are no coincidences, it is all arranged by God. Every person who crosses our path is there by design, whether or not we understand the reason at the time. This summer it was truly remarkable to watch God working in so many lives. To witness the enormous outpouring of love for Marko and Gaga gave us all hope, that our fellow man is inherently good and kind. It will be a long winter and we will look forward to seeing our friends again next year.
Monday, July 7, 2014
EXTRAORDINARY SUPPORT FOR A WOUNDED WARRIOR
EXTRAORDINARY SUPPORT FOR A WOUNDED WARRIOR by Susan Warren
Last Thursday morning I had the opportunity to witness a number of generous non-profit organizations combining their efforts in their support of a severely wounded warrior, Sgt. Adam Keys, Army Airborne, who lost three limbs after being wounded in combat in Afghanistan three years ago. It was the ground breaking ceremony for Adam's future home on a beautiful wooded property near Annapolis, Maryland. It began with a beautifully sung rendition of the Star Spangled Banner which, of course, I teared up singing! You should know me by now!!! Storms were predicted the night before, but the Lord knew how special this morning was and He gave us clear blue skies.
Adam has been a patient at Walter Reed National Military Medical Center-Bethesda since he was injured, and has had a long roller coaster recovery. He has endured over one hundred surgeries and numerous setbacks, but he has been tenacious in his determination to return to a life with big plans for his future. His parents Julie and Steve have been by his side through his recovery, or taking turns when issues with home and family called one of them away. Adam's healing has been lengthy and tedious. After multiple surgeries that brought advancement and then complications that set him back..... through it all he has remained positive and caused everyone around him to do the same. His strength and courage affect all those who come in contact with him. To describe him as inspirational is an understatement. His personality and his sense of humor truly uplift all those who know or meet him. He is always smiling!
This event, as well as the land, the architects, the builders, the interior furnishings and everything else, will be donated by a multitude of patriotic sponsors, all pulled together by John O'Leary and Bob Saunders of Warrior Events, and the Stephen Sillers Tunnel to Towers Foundation/Building for America's Bravest. Stephen Sillers was a firefighter who ran into the towers on 9/11 and gave his life on that fateful day saving others. His family formed a foundation to show their support for those who are severely wounded while serving our country and also for firefighters injured on duty. The Gary Sinise Foundation/Lt. Dan Band organizes concert/fundraisers throughout the country to help raise the money needed to provide personally modified homes for those service men and women whose lives are forever altered by their injuries. They create homes that allow them their independence and sense of self. Sponsors include sports teams, architects, builders, designers, suppliers of appliances, furniture, paint......you name it........all donated to create an adapted home for their specific needs, that will make their lives 'normal.'
There were speakers representing the above-mentioned sponsors, each expressing how incredibly grateful they felt to be a part of this endeavor. Home Depot, for example, hires veterans and promises them a future with their company. Adam, using two canes to stand from his wheelchair to address the audience, recited the names of those soldiers/brothers with whom he served who did not return home...stressing that they are the true heroes, and he would always carry memories of them in his heart.
As the ceremony came to a close, the vocalist asked us to join her in singing "America the Beautiful" (again more tears), and then the skies darkened, the thunder clapped and the rains came! God's timing was perfect, once again. As several of us drove away to a nearby restaurant to continue celebrating Adam and his future home, I could not help but appreciate such a memorable gathering of Americans who deeply love their country and those who have sacrificed so much for our freedoms here at home. I look forward to seeing Adam's completed home, and I thank God for the multitudes of supporters/sponsors who are so willing to be a part of something much larger than themselves. Patriotism in not dead, not by a long shot!
Last Thursday morning I had the opportunity to witness a number of generous non-profit organizations combining their efforts in their support of a severely wounded warrior, Sgt. Adam Keys, Army Airborne, who lost three limbs after being wounded in combat in Afghanistan three years ago. It was the ground breaking ceremony for Adam's future home on a beautiful wooded property near Annapolis, Maryland. It began with a beautifully sung rendition of the Star Spangled Banner which, of course, I teared up singing! You should know me by now!!! Storms were predicted the night before, but the Lord knew how special this morning was and He gave us clear blue skies.
Adam has been a patient at Walter Reed National Military Medical Center-Bethesda since he was injured, and has had a long roller coaster recovery. He has endured over one hundred surgeries and numerous setbacks, but he has been tenacious in his determination to return to a life with big plans for his future. His parents Julie and Steve have been by his side through his recovery, or taking turns when issues with home and family called one of them away. Adam's healing has been lengthy and tedious. After multiple surgeries that brought advancement and then complications that set him back..... through it all he has remained positive and caused everyone around him to do the same. His strength and courage affect all those who come in contact with him. To describe him as inspirational is an understatement. His personality and his sense of humor truly uplift all those who know or meet him. He is always smiling!
This event, as well as the land, the architects, the builders, the interior furnishings and everything else, will be donated by a multitude of patriotic sponsors, all pulled together by John O'Leary and Bob Saunders of Warrior Events, and the Stephen Sillers Tunnel to Towers Foundation/Building for America's Bravest. Stephen Sillers was a firefighter who ran into the towers on 9/11 and gave his life on that fateful day saving others. His family formed a foundation to show their support for those who are severely wounded while serving our country and also for firefighters injured on duty. The Gary Sinise Foundation/Lt. Dan Band organizes concert/fundraisers throughout the country to help raise the money needed to provide personally modified homes for those service men and women whose lives are forever altered by their injuries. They create homes that allow them their independence and sense of self. Sponsors include sports teams, architects, builders, designers, suppliers of appliances, furniture, paint......you name it........all donated to create an adapted home for their specific needs, that will make their lives 'normal.'
There were speakers representing the above-mentioned sponsors, each expressing how incredibly grateful they felt to be a part of this endeavor. Home Depot, for example, hires veterans and promises them a future with their company. Adam, using two canes to stand from his wheelchair to address the audience, recited the names of those soldiers/brothers with whom he served who did not return home...stressing that they are the true heroes, and he would always carry memories of them in his heart.
As the ceremony came to a close, the vocalist asked us to join her in singing "America the Beautiful" (again more tears), and then the skies darkened, the thunder clapped and the rains came! God's timing was perfect, once again. As several of us drove away to a nearby restaurant to continue celebrating Adam and his future home, I could not help but appreciate such a memorable gathering of Americans who deeply love their country and those who have sacrificed so much for our freedoms here at home. I look forward to seeing Adam's completed home, and I thank God for the multitudes of supporters/sponsors who are so willing to be a part of something much larger than themselves. Patriotism in not dead, not by a long shot!
Tuesday, June 10, 2014
HONORING OUR WALTER REED CAREGIVERS
HONORING OUR WALTER REED CAREGIVERS
Over the last three years I have been blessed with the opportunity to assist in coordinating a luncheon for some of the ladies/caregivers from Walter Reed. Our Women's Republican Club sponsors a spring luncheon in a beautiful private home not far from the hospital. As many of you already know, over the years I have grown very close to many of these caregivers and their families, so I was honored to be responsible for invitations and transportation. I wanted to share with you this exceptional afternoon that took place last month.
As our guests arrived they were first greeted by the sound of a solo bagpiper, Dan Friz, a Montgomery County policeman who is a member of the MCFD Pipe and Drum. I have written in the past about the band entertaining at the cookouts I am involved with at the hospital. As the ladies approached the house there were warm welcomes from many of our club members, greeting them throughout the house and out to the backyard. Immediately there was a wonderful sense of camaraderie that was shared by our eighteen special guests and our sixty members and their friends. Threatening weather turned to intermittent sunshine and our hostess' beautiful home was once again the perfect venue for our gathering.
Our pot luck luncheon was a varied array of salads and desserts made by some of our members with love. With guests and members settling throughout the house and the backyard, it was an opportunity to give these ladies our undivided attention, to hear their personal stories, their journeys, the obstacles they have faced and the goals they have attained. Stories of their wounded loved ones, their lives turned upside down, their lives here at Walter Reed with their children, and all things related to the recovery process. This intimate time together is what makes our luncheon so special and the reason we want to open our arms and our hearts to the women who are the heroes behind the heroes.
After lunch we gathered in the living room to hear our guest speaker, Mary Jo Myers, wife of Gen. Richard Myers, former Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff. You can imagine with that many people squeezed into one room it was crowded with ladies sitting on the floor, on the sofas and chairs and standing in a circle, but it was quite comfortable. Mary Jo clearly understands the plight of the military family, the setbacks, the challenges, and all that they go through as their lives continue to adapt to changes. What was so touching was that her compassion brought her to tears many times as she spoke. She truly has a heart for what they endure day after day and she captured our hearts from the start. We were very blessed to have her with us to share her knowledge and experience with military families.
Next we set aside time for any caregivers who might be willing to share their personal stories. First was Claudia Avila, wife of a soldier, whose husband suffered grave injuries in Iraq. She shared with us that her husband's medical team felt he would make a partial recovery, but that his brain damage would not improve. She knew in her heart that she would not accept that prognosis, and through her determination and advocacy, his recovery has been miraculous. Kelly Burke's message was about a family pulling together through unusual circumstances. First Kelly's husband was wounded and she became his caregiver. Not that long after, her son-in-law was also injured in combat. She requested a transfer for her family to be here on the east coast so that she could once again assist in the recovery process along with her daughter. As she said to me later, it was unusual to hear sniffles from the caregivers, but the emotions run deep when you hear these compelling accounts of resilience, courage and tenacity. Two or three of the guests attended our luncheon for the second or third time!! Their wounded have been here for close to three years!
Our club is an extremely generous one which enabled us to give each of our caregivers a gift of appreciation for all that they have sacrificed. Packaged in bright yellow envelopes we distributed them and then selected names from a basket for door prizes....more generous gifts.......gift cards to Ruth's Chris Steakhouse, Underarmour, Target and more. Then it was time for the ladies to return on the bus provided them by the Yellow Ribbon Fund for the trip back to Walter Reed.
The event was without a doubt a wonderful success for all who attended. I thank God for opportunities like this one, and I believe everyone there felt the same. It is imperative that the civilian world understand the sacrifices these women make on a daily basis for their husbands, sons and families. For the caregivers it is our genuine interest and compassion that give them a sense of hope and comfort and on that day we could honestly say "Mission accomplished".
Over the last three years I have been blessed with the opportunity to assist in coordinating a luncheon for some of the ladies/caregivers from Walter Reed. Our Women's Republican Club sponsors a spring luncheon in a beautiful private home not far from the hospital. As many of you already know, over the years I have grown very close to many of these caregivers and their families, so I was honored to be responsible for invitations and transportation. I wanted to share with you this exceptional afternoon that took place last month.
As our guests arrived they were first greeted by the sound of a solo bagpiper, Dan Friz, a Montgomery County policeman who is a member of the MCFD Pipe and Drum. I have written in the past about the band entertaining at the cookouts I am involved with at the hospital. As the ladies approached the house there were warm welcomes from many of our club members, greeting them throughout the house and out to the backyard. Immediately there was a wonderful sense of camaraderie that was shared by our eighteen special guests and our sixty members and their friends. Threatening weather turned to intermittent sunshine and our hostess' beautiful home was once again the perfect venue for our gathering.
Our pot luck luncheon was a varied array of salads and desserts made by some of our members with love. With guests and members settling throughout the house and the backyard, it was an opportunity to give these ladies our undivided attention, to hear their personal stories, their journeys, the obstacles they have faced and the goals they have attained. Stories of their wounded loved ones, their lives turned upside down, their lives here at Walter Reed with their children, and all things related to the recovery process. This intimate time together is what makes our luncheon so special and the reason we want to open our arms and our hearts to the women who are the heroes behind the heroes.
After lunch we gathered in the living room to hear our guest speaker, Mary Jo Myers, wife of Gen. Richard Myers, former Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff. You can imagine with that many people squeezed into one room it was crowded with ladies sitting on the floor, on the sofas and chairs and standing in a circle, but it was quite comfortable. Mary Jo clearly understands the plight of the military family, the setbacks, the challenges, and all that they go through as their lives continue to adapt to changes. What was so touching was that her compassion brought her to tears many times as she spoke. She truly has a heart for what they endure day after day and she captured our hearts from the start. We were very blessed to have her with us to share her knowledge and experience with military families.
Next we set aside time for any caregivers who might be willing to share their personal stories. First was Claudia Avila, wife of a soldier, whose husband suffered grave injuries in Iraq. She shared with us that her husband's medical team felt he would make a partial recovery, but that his brain damage would not improve. She knew in her heart that she would not accept that prognosis, and through her determination and advocacy, his recovery has been miraculous. Kelly Burke's message was about a family pulling together through unusual circumstances. First Kelly's husband was wounded and she became his caregiver. Not that long after, her son-in-law was also injured in combat. She requested a transfer for her family to be here on the east coast so that she could once again assist in the recovery process along with her daughter. As she said to me later, it was unusual to hear sniffles from the caregivers, but the emotions run deep when you hear these compelling accounts of resilience, courage and tenacity. Two or three of the guests attended our luncheon for the second or third time!! Their wounded have been here for close to three years!
Our club is an extremely generous one which enabled us to give each of our caregivers a gift of appreciation for all that they have sacrificed. Packaged in bright yellow envelopes we distributed them and then selected names from a basket for door prizes....more generous gifts.......gift cards to Ruth's Chris Steakhouse, Underarmour, Target and more. Then it was time for the ladies to return on the bus provided them by the Yellow Ribbon Fund for the trip back to Walter Reed.
The event was without a doubt a wonderful success for all who attended. I thank God for opportunities like this one, and I believe everyone there felt the same. It is imperative that the civilian world understand the sacrifices these women make on a daily basis for their husbands, sons and families. For the caregivers it is our genuine interest and compassion that give them a sense of hope and comfort and on that day we could honestly say "Mission accomplished".
Monday, April 7, 2014
SUPPORTING AND HONORING VETERANS AND THEIR FAMILIES
SUPPORTING AND HONORING VETERANS AND THEIR FAMILIES
I am not a fancy person, to say the least and I prefer to be casual almost all the time. Rarely do I have formal events that I attend throughout the year (except for the Marine Corps birthday balls in November). This year has started off with two of them, one week apart, but two events which I was not willing to miss. These were special gatherings because they were all about our combat wounded and their families. After reading all my previous articles you know that is where my heart lies. These two evenings were so spectacular that I wanted to share them with you.
The first was the Navy-Marine Corps Relief Society Ball. This organization provides funds and grants to the families of Marines and Sailors for education, home repairs, living expenses, bills, whatever is necessary in their time of need. Entering the hotel there was a bank of computers with Marines registering those who were planning to bid on an enormous array of items in a silent auction. All the items were on display, well over one hundred, from jewelry to vacations. After examining the auction items and perusing an exhibit of combat art by well known artists such as Rob Bates and Michael Faye, we proceeded to our table. There were eight hundred and thirty guests, from Four Star Generals to Admirals, lots of brass from the Marine Corps and the Navy. It was quite an impressive sight for a civilian like myself!
The opening to all military events is the ceremonial music, hymns from both branches, the Navy and the Marine Corps. The color guard always gives me chills and our National Anthem always makes me cry. I cannot get through them without tears flowing. There were moving opening remarks by Admiral Gortney, Commander, US Fleet Forces Command and Gen. James Amos, Commandant of the Marine Corps. Following their remarks was an outstanding performance of "Still in the Fight", sung by the composer, Lt Mike Corrado. I have to say it is one of my favorite songs of all time as well as the theme song of the DVD of the same title. Then we heard from our guests of honor, Cpl. Kyle Carpenter speaking about service and sacrifice (Cpl Carpenter will be receiving the Medal of Honor later this year), and Lt. Jason Redman, US Navy SEAL, retired. His message was incredibly moving. He spoke about his recovery, his determination and perseverance to push forward. His time at Walter Reed with other combat wounded influenced his decision to create a clothing line of adaptive clothing for those who now have prosthetic limbs, as well as raising money through his nonprofit Wounded Wear to support them and their families. To hear his passion for his mission really touched everyone's hearts. The applause when they concluded their messages was deafening. A standing ovation that lasted a good several minutes. That was the height of the evening. It was evident how appreciative everyone was of their service. The food was delicious too, I might add, but the highlight of the program was the speakers. I love seeing everyone in their formal attire. It certainly makes you feel like it was not an ordinary event, but a very special evening.
A week later I was honored to attend the Luke's Wings Annual Hero Gala. Luke's Wings provides airfare for our combat wounded and their families and friends to and from military hospitals throughout the US. They also do the same for elder veterans in hospice care. Their motto is "Flying Families, Lifting Spirits". The military is only able to provide 3 flights at the inception of the injury. With wounded warriors recovering at military medical centers for sometimes up to 4 years, it is up to the wounded or their loved ones to pay for travel. With airfare averaging around $500 a person, this can be one of the most expensive line items in a wounded warrior's recovery.
They had a raffle with some wonderful prizes, as well as local vendors who donated a portion of their sales to Luke's Wings. Their mistress of ceremonies was Shannon Bream of Fox News. They opened with a presentation ceremony to their corporate sponsor Lockheed Martin, and also to Lt Jason Redman, the Hero Award. It seems I run into Jason everywhere I go!! Our entertainment for the gala was the MusiCorps Wounded Warrior Band, who have played many times at award ceremonies for our veterans and our wounded. The band is comprised of combat wounded and is always inspirational.
After the opening ceremonies there was a very special video about a young warrior who lost his fight to cancer. It showed how closely the members of Luke's Wings become involved with those to whom they provide airfare. Luke's Wings consists of much more than what they are created to do. They become family to the families they serve. This one particular family whose wounded son developed and lost his battle with terminal cancer, wanted to share with everyone just how much Luke's Wings meant to them throughout their hospital experience and their time of grief. Everyone in the room was weeping. It was the most tender message and really pulled it all together for those who do not know Luke's Wings personally. I am blessed to know them and I witness them working tirelessly every single day to bring families and friends together.
Next was the live auction, and that was absolutely wonderful. Those bidding held up a large sign with their number in it. Signs were waving all over the ballroom. Bids kept rising, and donations were growing. It was so exciting to watch and feel the enthusiasm in the room!!! The spirit of the auction was contagious, as it should be, and the bids kept going higher. With the cost of an airline ticket so high, the auctioneer asked who would like to bid at least $350 toward a ticket and over twenty people waved their signs in the air. As the bidding slowed down it was time for the highlight of the night.....a fashion show with local and national designers, modeled by wounded warriors and their spouses and military members from Walter Reed. The applause was endless, the cheers went up for each of the models and then the dancing began. I am not much of a dancer, so with both of these events that was my time to depart.
Looking back on the two patriotic and uplifting evenings, I can reflect on our heroes and their families and all that they have sacrificed for all of us. Were it not for their selfless service to our country, we would not have the lives we cherish so dearly. To honor them is our gift, to lift them up and praise them is a privilege. I will always be grateful for the opportunities I have to attend an event that honors our distinguished service men and women.
Navy-Marine Corps Relief Society website: http://www.nmcrs.org/
Luke's Wings website: http://www.lukeswings.org/
I am not a fancy person, to say the least and I prefer to be casual almost all the time. Rarely do I have formal events that I attend throughout the year (except for the Marine Corps birthday balls in November). This year has started off with two of them, one week apart, but two events which I was not willing to miss. These were special gatherings because they were all about our combat wounded and their families. After reading all my previous articles you know that is where my heart lies. These two evenings were so spectacular that I wanted to share them with you.
The first was the Navy-Marine Corps Relief Society Ball. This organization provides funds and grants to the families of Marines and Sailors for education, home repairs, living expenses, bills, whatever is necessary in their time of need. Entering the hotel there was a bank of computers with Marines registering those who were planning to bid on an enormous array of items in a silent auction. All the items were on display, well over one hundred, from jewelry to vacations. After examining the auction items and perusing an exhibit of combat art by well known artists such as Rob Bates and Michael Faye, we proceeded to our table. There were eight hundred and thirty guests, from Four Star Generals to Admirals, lots of brass from the Marine Corps and the Navy. It was quite an impressive sight for a civilian like myself!
The opening to all military events is the ceremonial music, hymns from both branches, the Navy and the Marine Corps. The color guard always gives me chills and our National Anthem always makes me cry. I cannot get through them without tears flowing. There were moving opening remarks by Admiral Gortney, Commander, US Fleet Forces Command and Gen. James Amos, Commandant of the Marine Corps. Following their remarks was an outstanding performance of "Still in the Fight", sung by the composer, Lt Mike Corrado. I have to say it is one of my favorite songs of all time as well as the theme song of the DVD of the same title. Then we heard from our guests of honor, Cpl. Kyle Carpenter speaking about service and sacrifice (Cpl Carpenter will be receiving the Medal of Honor later this year), and Lt. Jason Redman, US Navy SEAL, retired. His message was incredibly moving. He spoke about his recovery, his determination and perseverance to push forward. His time at Walter Reed with other combat wounded influenced his decision to create a clothing line of adaptive clothing for those who now have prosthetic limbs, as well as raising money through his nonprofit Wounded Wear to support them and their families. To hear his passion for his mission really touched everyone's hearts. The applause when they concluded their messages was deafening. A standing ovation that lasted a good several minutes. That was the height of the evening. It was evident how appreciative everyone was of their service. The food was delicious too, I might add, but the highlight of the program was the speakers. I love seeing everyone in their formal attire. It certainly makes you feel like it was not an ordinary event, but a very special evening.
A week later I was honored to attend the Luke's Wings Annual Hero Gala. Luke's Wings provides airfare for our combat wounded and their families and friends to and from military hospitals throughout the US. They also do the same for elder veterans in hospice care. Their motto is "Flying Families, Lifting Spirits". The military is only able to provide 3 flights at the inception of the injury. With wounded warriors recovering at military medical centers for sometimes up to 4 years, it is up to the wounded or their loved ones to pay for travel. With airfare averaging around $500 a person, this can be one of the most expensive line items in a wounded warrior's recovery.
They had a raffle with some wonderful prizes, as well as local vendors who donated a portion of their sales to Luke's Wings. Their mistress of ceremonies was Shannon Bream of Fox News. They opened with a presentation ceremony to their corporate sponsor Lockheed Martin, and also to Lt Jason Redman, the Hero Award. It seems I run into Jason everywhere I go!! Our entertainment for the gala was the MusiCorps Wounded Warrior Band, who have played many times at award ceremonies for our veterans and our wounded. The band is comprised of combat wounded and is always inspirational.
After the opening ceremonies there was a very special video about a young warrior who lost his fight to cancer. It showed how closely the members of Luke's Wings become involved with those to whom they provide airfare. Luke's Wings consists of much more than what they are created to do. They become family to the families they serve. This one particular family whose wounded son developed and lost his battle with terminal cancer, wanted to share with everyone just how much Luke's Wings meant to them throughout their hospital experience and their time of grief. Everyone in the room was weeping. It was the most tender message and really pulled it all together for those who do not know Luke's Wings personally. I am blessed to know them and I witness them working tirelessly every single day to bring families and friends together.
Next was the live auction, and that was absolutely wonderful. Those bidding held up a large sign with their number in it. Signs were waving all over the ballroom. Bids kept rising, and donations were growing. It was so exciting to watch and feel the enthusiasm in the room!!! The spirit of the auction was contagious, as it should be, and the bids kept going higher. With the cost of an airline ticket so high, the auctioneer asked who would like to bid at least $350 toward a ticket and over twenty people waved their signs in the air. As the bidding slowed down it was time for the highlight of the night.....a fashion show with local and national designers, modeled by wounded warriors and their spouses and military members from Walter Reed. The applause was endless, the cheers went up for each of the models and then the dancing began. I am not much of a dancer, so with both of these events that was my time to depart.
Looking back on the two patriotic and uplifting evenings, I can reflect on our heroes and their families and all that they have sacrificed for all of us. Were it not for their selfless service to our country, we would not have the lives we cherish so dearly. To honor them is our gift, to lift them up and praise them is a privilege. I will always be grateful for the opportunities I have to attend an event that honors our distinguished service men and women.
Navy-Marine Corps Relief Society website: http://www.nmcrs.org/
Luke's Wings website: http://www.lukeswings.org/
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